The Best Female Fingering Techniques Exposed – Hot Tips on How to Finger Your Girlfriend

Recently, a lot of people have been asking me about things they can do to spice up their sex life.

Usually, my first answer is that they should try something different. Variety is the spice of life, after all.

What has been really good to see lately is that so many of them are realizing that there is more to sex than just getting naked and thrusting a little bit. People are trying new positions, and even new things – like fingering.

What that eventually means, however, is that I get a ton of email from guys (and girls) who have tried it, and it just hasn’t worked as well as they wanted it to. How, they ask, can we turn it from “okay” into “incredible?”

Glad you asked. Here are my top 4 tips on how to use your fingers to make your girlfriend feel the most incredible sexual ecstasy of her life.

Step 1: Get Her Wet

When you get down to it, whether you’re using your finger or your penis for penetration, the conditions for making it as pleasurable as possible are still more or less the same. The first condition, of course, is that she has to be wet and aroused.

Although I’m not going to get into the specifics of how to create and maintain sexual tension, sexual attraction, and why these are key to creating and maintaining female arousal, I will say one thing – foreplay is very important. A little kissing and groping (done correctly) can go a long way.

Step 2: Prepare for Entry

Even when she’s wet, remember that the wetness comes from inside the vagina. Therefore, you need to somehow make sure your fingers are lubricated before putting them in there. You can use lube, of course, but I find the easiest way is just to get her to suck on them. You can do it yourself, of course, but girls always have a way of doing it in that really sexy manner that reminds you of something else.

Step 3: Location, Location, Location

Remember that whatever you do in there, it has to hit the right spots. The best way to do things for a sure-fire screaming orgasm, in my opinion, is to stroke the G spot with your fingers. To do this, insert your fingers palm up, and crook your fingers in a “come here” motion. Be careful not to use too much pressure – this is a sensitive area, after all, and even the slightest touches will be keenly felt.

Step 4: Don’t Forget About The Other Stuff

The worst thing you can do during this experience is to focus on it so intensely it seems like you’re performing some kind of brain surgery. Remember guys, it’s sex. Sex is supposed to be fun, enjoyable, caring, and spontaneous. Don’t let everything else – like communication, connecting with her sexual energy, and all that other fun stuff – fall by the wayside, or else the whole exercise is just a waste of time.



Source by Daniel Scott

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